Kukhalabe ndi unansi wabwino wozika mizu m’chikhulupiriro ndi kukonda Mulungu ndiko chinsinsi cha ukwati wachimwemwe. Kudzipereka kumeneku kwa maanja kudzatsogolera banja lililonse lomwe liripo, laling'ono kapena lachikulire, kwanthawi yayitali kapena ongokwatirana kumene, kumanga ubale wolimba ndi wokhalitsa ndi Mulungu pakati pawo.
Banja lirilonse likuyembekeza kukhala ndi ubale wabwino ndi wokhalitsa. Kumvetsetsana, kulemekezana wina ndi mnzake, ndi chikondi chomwe mumagawana zimakhala zatanthauzo kwambiri mukamayika Mulungu patsogolo.
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
#1: Kuyenda Limodzi: Kupemphera kwa Maanja
Chidule cha Buku: Mark ndi Susan anali banja labwino kwambiri lachikhristu lomwe ndimaganiza kuti lidzakhala limodzi mpaka kalekale. Ndinadabwa kwambiri nditamva kuti pambuyo pa zaka 30 za m’banja, iwo anaganiza zosiya njira zawo. Ndinamufunsa Mark zomwe zinachitika. Iye adati; “Sindikudziwa kwenikweni; tonse tinangozindikira tsiku lina kuti tasintha. Sindinadziwe kuti anali ndani, ndipo sankandidziwa. Ndikuganiza kuti zinali zovuta kwambiri kuti tiyambenso. "
Kusintha sikungalephereke. Ndipotu ngati simukukula, mukufa. Ngati simuchita khama kuti mutenge wokondedwa wanu paulendo, mudzadzuka tsiku lina ndikupeza kuti muli malo osiyana kwambiri. Izi ndi zoona makamaka pa moyo wanu wauzimu. Kuyenda limodzi ndi chipembedzo chachifupi cha masiku asanu chomwe cholinga chake ndi kukupangitsani inu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kukhala ndi chizolowezi chokulira limodzi mu uzimu. Tsiku lililonse muli ndi mafunso okambirana kuti inu ndi okondedwa anu mugawane njira yomwe Mulungu akutsogolereni ndikulankhula nanu lero. Pemphero langa ndilakuti zonse zaukwati wanu ndi moyo wauzimu zilemeredwe ndi kudalitsidwa ndi chida ichi.
# 1: Chikondi Chimalimba Tsiku ndi Tsiku: Chaka Chodzipereka Kwa Maanja
Chidule cha Buku: Chikondi ndi kusankha. Kusankha tsiku ndi tsiku. The Love Dare Tsiku ndi Tsiku ndi tsiku lililonse chikumbutso za momwe zimachitikira - ndikuchita bwino - kutengera zomwe zidachokera ku gawo lina.
Ndi zoyeserera 52 za sabata, kupembedza kwa chaka chimodzi uku kukuitanani kuti mulowe mwakuya mu mfundo za m'malemba za The Love Dare ndipo cholinga chake ndikulemeretsa ubale wanu ndi Mulungu ndi mnzanu kudzera mu nthawi yowerenga, kupemphera, ndi kuchitapo kanthu. Pangani izi kupitilira chaka chimodzi cha moyo wanu. Chipange kukhala cholimba mtima, sitepe yotsatira ya chikondi cha moyo wonse.
Zomwe zili m'bukuli ndi izi:
- Kuwerenga kodzipereka kwa 365 pazinthu zapadera za chikondi chenicheni
- 52 sabata iliyonse amayesa kukuthandizani kusonyeza chikondi m'banja lanu
- Mapemphero ambiri achindunji kuti mudzipempherere nokha ndi mnzanu
- Mafunso oti muganizire bwino za ubale wanu
- Zigawo zoposa 100 za Go Deeper zomwe zimatithandiza kuphunzira Baibulo panokha
- Ulalo wapadera wazinthu za ULERE zowunika maukwati pa intaneti
Umboni wa Chikondi Amayesetsa Tsiku ndi Tsiku: Chaka Chakupemphera kwa Maanja
Ili ndi buku labwino kwambiri lachipembedzo lomwe lili ndi mfundo zochitira tsiku lililonse limodzi ndi kulemba kolimbikitsa komanso malemba.
Nkhani yokhudza mtima kwambiri ya mikangano yapakati pa okwatirana ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yobwereranso ku ubale momwe udayenera kukhalira.
Mabuku Oyenera Kuwerenga:Zolipidwa
Kupemphera kwa Maanja #2: Kudzipereka kwa Mabanja: Kumanga Maziko a Ubwenzi Wauzimu
Chidule cha Buku: Ngati muli ngati ambiri omwe ali pachibwenzi, mukuyang'ana zoposa bwenzi - mukufuna munthu wokwatirana naye! Chofunikira cha ubale weniweni wa bwenzi la mzimu ndi kulumikizana kwakuya kwauzimu.
Buku lochititsa chidwili, Devotions for Dating Couples, likupereka malangizo ozama kudzipereka kwanu kwa Mulungu monga munthu payekha komanso ngati banja. Ubale wofunikira wachikondi-ndi Mulungu komanso womanga naye banja-wamphamvu, wokhalitsa, komanso wowala.
Akatswiri a maubwenzi Ben Young ndi Samuel Adams, alembi a Malamulo Khumi a Chibwenzi ndi The One, amapereka malangizo osavuta kugwiritsa ntchito okulitsa kuyenda kwanu ndi Mulungu komanso kukulitsa ubale wanu wauzimu monga banja.
Pamene mukuwerenga mapemphero tsiku lililonse, mudzakhala:
- Khalani okonda kwambiri mwa kuphunzira kukonda Mulungu poyamba
- Kupanga maphunziro ofunikira a ubale wokhalitsa
- Muziganizira kwambiri zinthu zofunika pa moyo
- Dziwani cholinga chauzimu ndi tanthauzo
- Zindikirani kuti chisomo si cha "oyamba" - ndi cha inu, tsiku lililonse
Kaya muli pachibwenzi kwambiri kapena muli pa chibwenzi, kudzipereka kwanu kwatsiku ndi tsiku komanso kudzipereka kwa banjali sabata iliyonse kudzakuthandizani kupeza njira yopezera chikondi cha moyo wonse.
Umboni wa Kudzipereka kwa Mabanja: Kumanga Maziko a Ubwenzi Wauzimu
Kupembedza komweko kunali kwabwino, ndipo kunali ndi malemba ena kumapeto kwa kudzipereka kulikonse kuti mupititse patsogolo kuwerenga kwanu ndikugwiritsa ntchito zodziperekazo bwino. Palinso malo oti mulembe zolingalira kuchokera ku kudzipereka kulikonse.
Kudzipereka kwakukulu kwa okwatirana! Zimakhudza Mulungu kuti ndine ubale komanso kukhala nanu limodzi kumapeto kwa sabata. Sikuti kuwerenga kwambiri tsiku lililonse kotero kunali kosangalatsa kuchita. Tinaphunziradi kumvetsera ndi kulankhulana bwino. Ndingapangire abwenzi apamtima.
# 3: Kudzipereka pa Ukwati Wopatulika: Chaka Chakupembedza Kwa Sabata Kwa Mabanja
Chidule cha Buku: Banja lanu ndi loposa pangano lopatulika ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Ndi ubale umene Mulungu amagwiritsa ntchito kuti akuthandizeni kumudziwa bwino, kumukhulupirira kwambiri, ndi kumukonda kwambiri.
Kudzipereka kwa Ukwati Wopatulika kumayang'ana momwe Mulungu angadziwululire kwa inu kudzera muukwati wanu ndi kukuthandizani kuyandikira kwa Iye komanso kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Ndi chidziŵitso chatsopano chomangirira pa mapulinsipulo opezeka mu Ukwati Wopatulika, kupemphera kwa mlungu ndi mlungu makumi asanu ndi ziŵiri kumeneku kumapereka nzeru zothandiza, za m’Baibulo za kulera ukwati wanu monga chisonyezero cha chikondi chanu pa Mulungu. Banja losangalala ndi labwino, koma lopatulika ndi lopatulika.
Umboni wa Kudzipereka kwa Ukwati Wopatulika: Chaka cha Kupembedza Kwa Sabata Kwa Mabanja
Chimodzi mwazinthu zabwino kwambiri zaukwati zomwe taziwerenga ngati banja. Mwachidule komanso momveka bwino komanso kumalimbitsa banja lauzimu poyamba tisanalowe m'mavuto.
Ndikupangira izi kwambiri. Mituyo ndi yaifupi komanso yozikidwa pa malembo, yosavuta kuwerenga, yophunzitsa komanso yothandiza kuti maanja aziphunzira limodzi kapena padera, kupereka malingaliro otsitsimula ndi kawonedwe ka ukwati! Tinaliwerenga mwachangu kuposa momwe tafotokozera.
Ndaphonya banja lanzeru ili. Utsogoleri wawo wapamwamba, chisamaliro chenicheni kwa ONSE, khalidwe loyenera la udindo wa boma, nzeru zawo, makhalidwe awo, kudzipereka kwawo ku banja, ndi chikondi chawo chotheratu pa zomwe Amereka angakhale ndi ayenera kukhala. Zitsanzo zowala za onse. zimenezo ndizabwino. 🍃💕 pic.twitter.com/eETmy1wFuv
- Zachabechabe (@Next45minutes) September 22, 2018
Kupemphera kwa Maanja # 4: Kupemphera kwa Chaka Chimodzi kwa Maanja: 365 Zowerenga Zolimbikitsa
Chidule cha Buku: Kaya mwakhala m’banja kwa miyezi ingapo kapena zaka zingapo, ubwenzi wanu wapamtima ungakhale wabwinoko. Mukudziwa kuti zovuta zimachokera ku njira zomwe mumalankhulirana. Koma mungasinthe bwanji?
Kupembedza kwa Chaka Chimodzi kwa Maanja kudzakuthandizani kupereka ndi kulandira chikondi munjira yatsopano. Kupyolera mu mfundo zotsimikizirika mu chipembedzo ichi, mudzapeza mphamvu zatsopano ndi chilimbikitso chatsopano kuti mukwaniritse zosowa za ubale za mnzanuyo. David ndi Teresa Ferguson, omwe adayambitsa bungwe la Intimate Life Ministries, ndi alangizi omwe angakutsogolereni kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino.
Mungathe-ndipo mudza--pititsa patsogolo banja lanu ndikukula mwauzimu ngati banja. Kaya banja lanu liri logwedezeka kapena lokhazikika, kupembedza kumeneku kukupatsani thanzi, chiyembekezo, ndi machiritso pa ubale wanu. Dziwani za chikondi chenicheni chauzimu ndi m'banja kudzera mu mfundo za m'Baibulo zopezeka mu mapemphero a maanja otchukawa.
Umboni wa Kupembedza kwa Chaka Chimodzi kwa Maanja: 365 Kuwerenga Molimbikitsa
Ndi bwino kupemphera kuyamba tsiku ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Ine ndi mkazi wanga timagwiritsa ntchito zimenezi m’maŵa kutilimbikitsa kukhala m’Baibulo pamene tikumalankhulana za zimene Mulungu akunena kwa munthu aliyense payekha.
Bukhuli latithandiza kukhalabe panjira ndi kudzipereka kwathu chifukwa limapezeka tsiku lililonse. Zatipatsa mafunso abwino kwambiri oti tikambirane pakati pathu, zinthu zomwe sitingaganize kuti tikambirane, koma ndizothandiza kwambiri kutero. Amagawana zitsanzo zenizeni kuchokera muukwati wake ndi maukwati ena kuti tigwirizane mosavuta ndikudziwa kuti sitili tokha paulendo wathu wakukula ndikuyesera kukhala ndi banja labwino.
Mabuku Oyenera Kuwerenga:Zolipidwa
Kudzipereka kwa Maanja # 5: Kudzipereka kwa Maanja - Kusindikiza kwa Mwamuna mu Mirror: Kwa Maanja Otanganidwa Omwe Amafuna Ubwenzi Wapamtima Pamaubwenzi Awo
Chidule cha Buku: Kodi ukwati wanu ndi umene munalijambula pamene munati: “Nditero”? Kodi chilakolako chikadali chotentha, ubwenzi udakali wotentha, ndipo ubale uli ndi tanthauzo? Ngati sichoncho, muli ndi ngongole kuti bukuli liperekedwe kwa inu mumayendedwe osatetezeka omwe asinthidwa chizindikiro cha wolemba.
Yolembedwa ndi Patrick Morley, the wolemba wopambana mphoto ndi mtsogoleli wa amuna apainiya, Devotions for Couples akukuitanani kuti mubwere pamodzi ndi kulola Mau a Mulungu kufufuza, kulimbikitsa, ndi kulimbitsa mitima yanu…ndi banja lanu.
Zozama komanso zothandiza, mawerengedwe 120 odzipereka awa adzakuthandizani kugwiritsa ntchito chowonadi cha m'Baibulo kukulitsa ubale wanu.
Kuwerenga izi kudzakuthandizaninso kulankhulana bwino, kumvetsetsana wina ndi mzake, kuphunzira zomwe zimakulekanitsani ndi momwe mungakhalire pamodzi, kulera ana anu, ndi kugawana tsogolo lodzaza ndi chisomo, chikhulupiriro, kukula, ndi kuyamikirana wina ndi mzake.
Umboni wa Kudzipereka kwa Maanja - Kusindikiza kwa Mwamuna mu Mirror: Kwa Maanja Otanganidwa Omwe Amafuna Ubwenzi Wapamtima Pamaubwenzi Awo
Bukuli linalimbikitsidwa kwambiri kwa ine ndi mkazi wanga kuti litithandize kuthana ndi mavuto athu. Zokwanira, zikugwira ntchito, gulani, simudzadandaula!
Ichi ndi chopita ku mphatso yaukwati. Nthawi zonse ndimaphatikiza izi ndi chinthu pa registry ya akwatibwi. Muzikonda mmene limafotokoza nkhani zofunika kwambiri ndipo limalimbikitsa mwamuna ndi mkazi wake kulankhulana.
Mabuku Oyenera Kuwerenga:Zolipidwa
Kodi Mapempherowa Anachita Chiyani Kuti Ayenerere Mndandandawu
Nthawi iliyonse mukasankha zabwino kwambiri zotsatira zake nthawi zambiri zimakhala zongoganizira chabe koma tachita zonse zomwe tingathe kuti tipeze mndandanda wa kudzipereka okwatiranawo adzasangalaladi ndi kupindula poŵerenga pamodzi. Kuti tipeze mndandandawu tinaganizira:
- kuchuluka ndi mtundu wa ndemanga za ogwiritsa ntchito
- deta yogulitsa
- malingaliro pagulu
- maganizo a owerenga a mtundu uwu
- kupambana kwamalonda
- ndipo ndithudi zochitika zaumwini
